Don’t put things in my mind” Because we will put those things and make them play on repeat till you shut up and get convinced it was your fault all along. Stop victim shaming.
There are numerous reasons why women refuse to report their experiences and even hide them from friends and family. However, one of the biggest reasons is said to be self-blame. This practice of self-blaming is not only caused by the victim blaming culture in our society but also by the deeply rooted societal issues and broken principles of the male dominating societies where women are taught that voicing their opinions is wrong. They keep living a life where all along they feel it was their fault.